So, it’s the end of the weekend.
As it turns out, even on a holiday long weekend, plans and arrangements can be flipped on their head with a phone call.
Without going into too much detail, part of why we thought it would be a good idea to start up again was some free time one of us would be having from now on, but some news (not bad news) has changed that and things are going to remain the same for the next little while.
But, thanks to the asks and messages we got from people over the past few days, we do feel good about this whole tumblr world again.
So we won’t be answering personal asks or sharing intimate details in long posts, but there is some progress on the extrarelational front again. Don’t expect us to say too much, but if anything does happen (and if we have the mood / time to write about it) we might make a post.
In the meantime, we are working on some new captions (and a new look for them), but whether or not we post them on here is something we’re still working on. Although, don’t expect anything right away.
But we do hope you all had a great weekend! And if you do have any questions or snippets of your lives or minds you’d like to share, we’ll be checking in intermittently this week to see how things are going.
So, until we do post again, we wish you all the best!
- H & M
We’re not dead!
(OoooOOOOooo! Scary ghost noises!) (We’re just kidding.)
Whew. It’s been a while.
A lot has happened since we last posted on here, and we just want you all to know that we have checked up intermittently to read your asks and things, but we didn’t reply for a reason.
First of all, we’ve been super busy with work and life. Secondly, we did other things. And by “other things” we do mean we engaged in cuckolding, and also stopped cuckolding. (If you’re a couple out there or if you’ve ever had the feelings, you’ll know how it is - sometimes you want to dive in deep and sometimes you just want to quit altogether…)
It’s getting a little late here, but we also did want to make a bit of an announcement. A lot of people have wanted to know if / when we would come back to post on here, and the answer is both a yes and no.
We’ve had some recent developments and have started thinking about creating captions again. But (and this is a big but, so pay attention), we might not be doing any further work on here.
And we do use the word “work” for a reason. During the last few months of our blogging, we didn’t always feel the same amount of pleasure or drive for tumblr. At times, it felt like an obligation to respond to people. And it didn’t help that a large number of those asks were hurtful, stupid, malicious, or things we’d answered a million times before (or have openly stated that we would never share). And when it came to posting, we’d lost both the passion and inspiration to create any original captions. We were mostly reblogging other people’s stuff (or watching people re-post / steal our own posts), and that’s not what we intended when we started this tumblr.
In short, it felt like work because we were doing all of this for other people, not for ourselves.
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But, recently we have felt that passion and inspiration to post again. As we said, there have been some recent developments, and… we’re a bit excited to be getting back into things.
However, those reasons that made us stop posting in the first place are still there (or at least, the risk of them…)
So we’ve been thinking things through, and the option we’ve been leaning closest to has been creating a new, private tumblr (we thought about watermarking posts, but that wouldn’t solve the other problems).
So a private blog would help with a lot of things:
1) We would no longer receive a ton of unsolicited / inane asks.
2) We would know who’s viewing our content.
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We would feel a bit safer about non-reposting.
4) We could focus more on ourselves / original content.
5) We could be even more intimate / candid with posts.
It’s something we’re seriously thinking about, if we do come back. But if you’ve been following us for a while (or are just a sensible person), you don’t need to worry too much - we would be giving the password to most people who ask nicely.
If we do create a password-protected blog, it’ll probably be sometime this weekend, but we do have to note that even if we do create one, we still might not update it as regularly as we did when we started out on tumblr. Work and life has only gotten busier for us since then.
And in advance, we apologize if any of this doesn’t make sense. It’s late, and we’ve spent a lot of time and energy today, but we did want to let you guys know what’s been up with us, and what we’re thinking about.
We hope you’re all doing well, and we wish you all the best!
- H & M