Q

wanderlustcuck asked:

Also, one other question. What was it that H loved so much about the sex with her ex? Size? Stamina?His dominance in bed? Something else? Just wondering?

A

When it comes to her ex, it’s all of those things.

His physicality is one part. That encompasses his size (in her words, it’s perfect), his stamina (for the most part, H and I make love, which doesn’t require all that much stamina, with him it was that half of the time and the other half spurts of against-the-wall-pound-your-brains-out moments), and simply his body (H is manly men, which I can’t really give her, and her ex is the epitome of masculine–muscular but toned, broad shoulders and jaw, the kind of person you’d expect to see on a hunky teen drama.)

His personality is another part. According to her, he can be really dominant (which she loves, at times) not just in bed but in life. His ability to push her is another thing (during the months of their break-up, he knew exactly what to say to charm her into “one last night” over and over again), along with a more naturalistic part of him. I don’t know exactly how to say it, so I’ll use a word she used once. He’s a “neanderthal”, because he takes what he wants and is a bit relentless when other people say no to him.

She teases me sometimes with the image of him being a cave man raider and me being a helpless villager–he plunders and takes his prize, and I can’t do it because of what I lack in my physicality and personality. That probably also plays into growing out her hair and teasing me about not using protection. With him, she reverts to her inner cave woman, and forsakes all modern day novelties. And that’s something she hasn’t really felt with anyone else.

- M