Kind of a post to go along with the caption I just put up. I got an ask from someone who wanted to keep private so I’ll answer it this way instead.

The question was: “Are you two always turned on by the cuckolding thing? Do either of you ever want to stop sometimes?”

The answer, whole-heartedly, is no to the first and yes to the second.

To simplify things, H and I can both get into “cuckolding mode” (for lack of a better term), where one or both of us will be turned on and in the mood to do some stuff. But that isn’t all the time.

I’ll run through an average day for us:
- H and I will wake up. We might tease or do some light stuff, but generally nothing much.
- H and I will then go to class or work, and for the most part (aside from a few thoughts here and there), we don’t think about it at all.
- H and I then come home. And up until the time we actually go to sleep, “cuckold mode” is fair game. We can sense when the other isn’t into it, but this time can involve teasing, playing, or even (like tonight) her going on a date with someone.

As you can tell, we only really play during our private times–when we’re not in public or discussing public things. That’s changing a bit with her dating her ex now, but for the most part it’s a secret from everyone we know. But when we’re alone, as long as we’re in the mood, we do it.

And if we’re not, we’re usually cuddled up and watching a movie or reading or playing video games. We’re still in love and in a nerdy relationship after all. And if either of us is stressed, busy, sick, or anything else, our play takes a back seat. Again, that comes with the whole communication thing–play only works when both people understand and want something to happen.

And as we get closer, those turned-on times for us tend to overlap. That’s the beauty of a long lasting loving relationship.

Hope that answers your question.

- M