Thanks for the ask and trust me, that’s a fact we’re very aware of.
Thing is, it’s not really the pregnancy that turns H (and myself) on. The idea of raising a child (and the paternity being questionable no less) is something we don’t want (at least not yet, and not with other people.)
The thrill comes from the risk, the fact that being risky would mean being so turned on (or for her, so submissive and perhaps promiscuous) that she would forgo rational thought and forsake relational commitment (with a pinch of being bad for the sake of it.) We’ve both said this before, but it’s the whole caveman paradigm. The thought that he could take her regardless of what risks it might entail for her or me is a powerful turn on.
So a pregnancy itself isn’t the fantasy. And, in this context at least, that’s why it won’t become a reality.
- M