All true, and a big part of the fantasy for us. H has a bit of a promiscuous past and loves to dress fun and flirty. She has a bit of a public exhibitionist side as well (more by the secretness of it instead of it being blatant, such as going around in a dress without panties as opposed to a super short skirt.)

There’s also a subtle humiliation about it. The idea that she’s more willing to dress sexy for him than for me is a big turn on for both of us (as is the idea of her getting more wild in bed with him too.)

And for those of you who want a few more details, H is indeed “dating” her ex. They flirt and text, go on dates, and have fun. They fuck too, but it’s in addition to everything else. We love that she gets to experience that excitement and feeling all over again.

Some of the practical things we’ve dealt with include whether or not he should pick her up where we live (we opted for her to go over to his place to make sure no one suspects anything, even though we’re not really close to or worried about anyone in our apartment building) and where exactly their dates and fun should take place (as of right now, they’ve only had dates at places our friends and family don’t usually go, and the secret’s remained kept so far.)

- M