Q

thatguy240-blog asked:

Have you had any high school bully fantasies come up yet?

A

Ohhhh yeah. That’s a big one for us.

That’s a bit of why he kind of wanted me to see my ex in the first place I guess. There wasn’t much bullying going on but more like my ex (and I to some extent) disregarded him as a dork and someone who really didn’t fit into our social circle. We were the “popular kids” and he was a nobody and that feeling of social dominance is a turn on for him (and myself as well).

But if you’re talking about did he get beat up or would I get turned on by someone doing that to him? No. Neither of us is into actual physical harm (him being tied up or me being spanked doesn’t count) and I don’t think I could ever date or have sex with anyone who meant to actually genuinely hurt M.

But being mean to him in verbal or emotional terms is still an area of play for us. Me telling him my ex is bigger, better, and whatever else is always a big turn on for him. And I also like playing with the idea that I’m willing to do more for my ex because he’s a better or stronger man. And also with the idea that my ex could boss me or M around and that he takes what he wants. And him taking me could be like him taking M’s lunch money or a toy on the playground… that’s a feeling we love to play with.

In fact one of my favourite ways to tease M is to say something like “Aww sweety… don’t you know he’s taking me away from you? Are you really just going to sit there and cry like a little boy and jerk off? Aren’t you going to try and stop him?” and then something like “Hmm… I guess you’re right. He would actually win if you tried to get into a physical fight or anything… well I guess you should just go home and play some video games while I go with him to his house… and we fuck in his bedroom for a few hours… try not to masturbate too much thinking about him coming inside me okay?”

So yeah… seeing him get all worked up thinking about me or another man being passively mean to him (or him wanting me and yet not being able to because another man has taken me away) is something that gets him really angsty and hard and me really wet. But I guess it’s like there is a line between being mean and being hurtful too. And we only like to play on one side of it.

- H