Q
boredbutawake asked:
Perhaps this falls into the category of things that H does with her ex that she doesn't want to tell but, surely, H and her ex are discussing M. Is this always in a respectful manner or does the dork/bully relation still is present when H is alone with her ex?
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Indeed they are. I think, in order for the arrangement to work in the first place, communicate between everyone has to involve everyone, and I’m certainly a topic that comes up for them.
Especially during their first set of dates, H and her ex spent a lot of time talking about limits and such, and he was curious about the reasons why I’d be okay with her seeing him again, and who I had grown into after high school. So they do discuss me, but not as much as those first days. When they’re playing, it’s all about them.
We’ve talked once together (all three of us over lunch) and he’s actually quite nice. He still has that bit of the socially dominant and non-chalant air that he had in high school, and he still has a bit of a thing for her, but he respects our relationship and rules nonetheless.
And if we’re being honest, he’s actually sort of our ideal candidate. Back in high school the reason they broke up was no matter how much fun and sex they had, he was never really into the quieter stay-at-home moments of relationships which H loves (and vice versa with me; I’m not that into fast going fun, which H loves and gets from him.) So H gets the best of both worlds in that regard.
We still have bullying moments, but they actually mostly come from H teasing me. Case in point: we were playing casually last night while watching tv. She was texting him and orating what each of them was saying “He says he wants to kiss me so badly right now… he says he wants to kiss me all over my body… I’m going to tell him I wish he could just come over and do it right now… sweety, don’t you see what he’s doing to your girlfriend?” while her other hand was buried in her panties.
Needless to say, it’s not really bullying, but it’s sort of a passive turn on for both of us. And it’s something that happens when she’s alone with either of us (and more in the direction of “you’re so powerful, you’re so strong, take me now, take me from him” when she’s with him.)
It’s a big benefit for each of us.
- M
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