Q
boredbutawake asked:
Ok I get trigger words. Most people, in their fantasies, go further than what they're actually doing in reality -- that's the whole point I guess. But you already are going pretty far for real. Apart from H falling for her ex or going bare, do you enjoy other fantasies that go further than what you're prepared to do in reality? And by the way, do you read erotica, and if so, do you have any suggestion? I've already read all of your posts and I haven't found anything coming close :)
A
I’m coupling this with a response to another ask about “does H ever go too far?”
H did cheat on me twice before we talked about cuckolding, and that was too far. It hurt both of us.
But even if something does hurt, if it turns us on and doesn’t hurt our relationship, we often enter into explore mode. We fantasize and use safe words when things go too far or get to the verge of that. Then we talk, try to pick apart the idea or thing, find a way for it to turn both of us on, or try something else entirely.
A big part of that talk is also things we’re unsure of. Things we like in fantasy but not reality or not yet. We’re going far, but that’s only because we’ve talked about and tried so much already. We have other things we want to try but might scare us as well, and those are things we talk about before we ever cross the bridge. We support each other and that’s what allows us to cross those bridges and come back, if necessary.
As for fantasies and future realities?
We’re not really sure of that yet. We’re still talking and we’d like to keep a lot of that private. But some of the things we’ve mentioned on the blog besides H falling for her ex or going bare include H being “sold” to other men (she has a big prostitution / escort fantasy), H sleeping with a stranger (she loved to party and be promiscuous for a little while and we’d both love for her to let loose again, although there are safety issues there), H being with more than one man (although again, safety issues), and things like denial or chastity (although we’re still not sure about chastity cages.)
If you’re looking for more things to turn you on in the time between our posts, feel free to look up the “cuckolding” and “cheating” tags on Literotica. There’s a lot of stuff on there, but the stories with four or more stars are usually good.
- M
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