We want to say sorry for not updating this week.

There’s been a big development between H and her ex. He’s started seeing someone. He’s gone on two dates with her and they are really hitting it off, so H and him had a talk last night and decided to stop seeing each other.

But we just want to say that it’s not a bad thing. In M’s mind, the emotional connection was uncharted territory, so it’s a good way to step back and evaluate. And in H’s mind, the intimacy was good to feel again, but a lot of the excitement of “falling again” fizzled out into familiarity. She even started seeing some of the little reasons why they broke up in the first place.

It’s raining and we’re spending today at home together, so we’ll be answering our backlog of asks and any we receive right away. We’ll also make a post either tonight or tomorrow about where we plan to go from here. We have a few possibilities, but one thing’s for sure: neither of us wants to stop this lifestyle. The things we feel comprise a force more powerful than any addiction we’ve ever imagined… and we love it.

- H & M