Q

itsybitsylil asked:

Love your blog. How much bigger is the ex's cock than M's? I'm curious to hear about the ways H may emphasize the size difference. Is it in a teasing way? A matter-of-fact one? Your cucking relationship seems so unique and cerebral, so I'm interested in hearing about the kind of things H might say in that area to hammer home the difference in a manner that makes it more emotional than physical.

A

H’s ex is a bit bigger in terms of both length and thickness. M actually isn’t all that small, just on the smaller side of average while H’s ex falls on the bigger side of average.

We emphasize it in teasing a bit but to be honest size isn’t the biggest point of teasing or turn on for either of us. It’s more of a simple fact but the physical pleasure H derives from it doesn’t compare at all to the psychological one.

In terms of making it more emotional we do fall back on the whole “caveman” thing most of the time. The idea that my ex can reach deeper or be more physical imposing than M (in terms of both his body and that certain part of his body) is something we like to use during our play sometimes. But again the biggest part for us is the psychological one. It’s the fact that my ex is taking me from him–even if/especially because H’s body is willing it to happen (and in terms of intimate or bare sex willing some other things to be risked as well).

Thanks for the ask. We hope that helps.

- H & M